A couple of examples:
1) We are preparing for the 3 year product plan review --one of the many company wide bottoms-up top-down process for which GE is well renown. Everyone brings their slides with their business plans; all functions have their things to say and pet projects to push. After looking at everyones slides it is clear that there is no cohesion to the pitch. Someone takes the lead and says the magic words: So... what's the story? Silence follows... That's what it takes to bring everyone back together... and we end up crafting a nice story, that it s easy for us to tell, ans simple for the higher rank execs to grasp.
2) Here is another example: we are having some quality problems and we are late fixing them... the big review is coming and one member of my team is worried about what will happen in the meeting: This has the potential to blow-up! It depends: Whats our story ? We could have told this story: we are late because [...] and here is what we are going to do to recover: [...]. But we told this one: there is a capacity problem in [...] process, we are going to fix it by doing [...] and we'll update you on the status next week. Nothing blew up... we should thank the story!
What makes a story good?
- A good story simplifies the message. In one of my first blogs was about How having kids helped me at work. One of the reasons I discussed was that having kids helped with communication because you are forced to simplify the message and tune it to the developmental stage of your child. At work is the same, usually the higher in the hierarchy you pitch, the simpler the message has to be. That's the ticket to pay for the dialog. Expect the smart boss --like smart kids-- to ask questions. Why this and why that... this is where the value of the interaction lays.
- A good story is true. This is a fundamental characteristic of a good story.. and probably the reason why there aren't many. Wehther it is at work or at home... if you look close enough stories aren't completely true. Because truth is often complex, and truth is in shades of gray.
- A bad story is biased or untrue. Storytelling is a very powerful comunication tool, and as such can be abused. By definition there is an assymetry of information that favors the storyteller. Add that to what is at stake in a typical Corporate America pitches (get the budget or not, get praised or fingerpointed, etc.) and you see why there is systemic incentive for the storyteller to bias or even lie.
- Stories are self-fulfilling. Because they are easy to tell and understand; they are easy to repeat and they can spread like a virus. A story is a meme. And once you repeat it yourself, that's it, it's your story, and you don't want it to be wrong. Organizations can end up lying to themselves because of bad stories, and all sort of bad things can happen just to keep the story true (including underestimating competitive threats, denying disruptions and identifying the incorrect root cause to problems).
1) When puting down a presentation ask yourself: What's the story? What's your elevator speech? This will help you frame the problem, get perspective and think clearly. Yes, you will simplify and that is ok.
2) Think about the audience. Now that you know your story, how do I tell the story to this specific audience. The more you know the audiences perspective, interests and background, the better. If you have limited information then you should spend time researching.
3) Be aware that 2) is not "what story does my audience wants to hear?". That's probably useful to know, but that shouldnt define your story or it will become a bad story.
4) If you are on the receiving end... understand what could be at stake for the storyteller. Ask questions at the beginning of the story to frame the potential biases. Ask questions during the story to cross-check it with other facts and independent data if possible.
5) At the end of a story believe it, be sure to understand it. Once it satisfies you drop it, ask yourself and the storyteller: What if the story is wrong? What decision or action are we forgoing because we believe the story and what could be the consequences not to dig further?. This will help you weight the importance to move forward vs. working on alternative scenarios.
6) Remember that the story you tell yourself ends up having a significant emotional impact. One of our HR managers always tells us that the truth is the story you tell yourself. Beware of your own cognitive biases, don't pick a story to quickly, play some what-ifs... don't tell yourself a story!